Cousin Cheating

So I was told my cousin is cheating on his girlfriend. He told me he's not but he had once. He also said I know who she is but I can't remember.

Anyway... the thing is, he's engaged. He's getting married in November and his fiancé is just so happy that it's heartbreaking if he's actually cheating on her. She's so nice and doesn't deserve this at all.

He admitted to doing it once? Have you seen any signs of it still going on?

Yup he admitted to me he dated another girl while he was with her, but he said it was a mistake.

Well I do see he used to talk to a blonde girl over MSN and girls go crazy on him cause he's attractive. I don't know if I showed him to you.

Plus he told me he's been going out to dance and his girlfriend doesn't know. He told me he doesn't kiss any girls though.

Still going out to dance and not telling her, has got to mean he is hiding something.

Probably. But he's not the type to go and tell you know? It sucks cause I get to see how happy his girlfriend is with the wedding and stuff.

Im sorry:(

Aaaw Bru, that sucks! You must be in a really awkward position. Are you close to his girlfriend? Do you think she suspects anything?

Well you can say I am cause me and my sister are the only ones who talk to her from my entire family.
Her mother went to talk to my father last week and she says she does.

Aww Bruski - you are always being put in a pickle from your family *hugs* - I hope for his girlfriends sake that he truly loves her and he is going to put all this behind him.

Maybe if you just ask him if he actually wants to get married to his gf, if he says yes then tell him he is in danger of losing the best thing that has ever happened to him - if he keeps going out and not telling her.

Is your cousin very old??? I know that shouldn't matter when it comes to cheating, but If hes to young to stop doing that - then he is probably too young to get married too.

I don't think he's ready to get married. Everything became screwy after he was let's say forced to propose.

He's not that old, he's 26. But it's what they say once a cheater always a cheater. It hurts me to say cause he's more than a cousin to me.

If he is more than a cousin to you, you need to keep trying to talk to him. If he isn't ready, and isn't happy than he shouldn't get married, and by you telling him that maybe that will help him.

I'm afraid it turns against me in the end.

Ohh wow what an awkward place to be in..sorry to here that:(. I guess the best thing you can do is ask your cousin if hes SERIOUS about getting married and explain how serious it is when your younger. I mean it sounds kind of weird but you can even use Nathan and Haley as an example, Nathan hasnt even cheated but just a hint of something perculiar in their relationship has Haley on the edge.

Maybe you can explain to him that hes losing out on an amazing thing if he doesnt control himself because all things come out in the end.